{"id":234,"date":"2025-09-07T11:25:20","date_gmt":"2025-09-07T09:25:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianermisch.com\/cms\/?p=234"},"modified":"2026-02-16T03:30:05","modified_gmt":"2026-02-16T02:30:05","slug":"architects-of-loneliness-version-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianermisch.com\/cms\/en\/architects-of-loneliness-version-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Architects of Loneliness (Version 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Be nice. Go out. Find people. Get therapy. I\u2019ve heard it a thousand times \u2013 and I know: none of it works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In science, people like to distinguish between loneliness and isolation. Loneliness is treated as a feeling, isolation as external circumstances that can be measured in numbers. Ten social contacts in a month? Congratulations, you\u2019re officially not isolated. How you actually feel? Irrelevant. I already find this separation questionable in academia \u2013 and in videos that claim to offer real help, it completely misses the point. Because very often it\u2019s the circumstances you\u2019re in that create your feelings. Anyone who treats loneliness in isolation is basically offering techniques to manage symptoms. Of course, you can take a pill for a toothache. But you don\u2019t expect that to cure the cavity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this video, I\u2019ll break down the eight tips most often shared on YouTube and X when it comes to loneliness \u2013 and I\u2019ll show you why they\u2019re so popular precisely because they don\u2019t work. After that, I\u2019ll show you a path that can actually lead out of loneliness. And by the end of this video, you\u2019ll find out what else this channel can do for you \u2013 and what makes it different from all the others. Shall we begin?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First, the eight \u201ctips\u201d:<br>Go out and meet people<br>Sign up for volunteer work or group activities<br>Use social media or dating apps<br>Practice mindfulness<br>Call old friends or family<br>Get yourself a pet<br>Just be open and friendly<br>Seek professional help<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Loneliness is a global phenomenon \u2013 many already call it a pandemic. The health risks include high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, weakened immunity, depression, cognitive decline, and even increased mortality. Psychologist Bruce Alexander demonstrated that isolation is strongly correlated with addiction. The causes of isolation are largely systemic and lead to the experience of loneliness. The tips, however, create the impression that people who feel lonely are almost entirely to blame themselves. Of course, that\u2019s completely wrong. So let\u2019s dive into the details:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Go out and meet people<br>Physicist and network specialist Albert-L\u00e1szl\u00f3 Barab\u00e1si showed that people usually move within a very small radius \u2013 often just a few, maybe a couple of dozen kilometers. They walk the same routes, at the same times, and therefore run into the same people \u2013 sometimes literally the very same ones. Frequent flyers may cover greater distances, but even they tend to travel the same routes, with the same airlines. They land at the same airports at the same times, to check into the same hotels \u2013 usually from the same chain. The reward? Loyalty points.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sign up for volunteer work or group activities<br>And then what? People sign up for all sorts of reasons: conviction, boredom, or just because a friend dragged them along. Just because someone joins a choir doesn\u2019t mean they want to sing \u2013 maybe they just want to make new contacts. But to those who are there to actually sing, that comes across as insincere. And yes \u2013 they will notice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Use social media or dating apps<br>Back to Barab\u00e1si: social media mirrors the physical world. You end up on the same platforms, with the same gatekeepers, connecting with people you\u2019ve already known for years \u2013 only digitally. For the platforms, that\u2019s financially lucrative; for you, it\u2019s just a circle of endless repetition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On dating apps, women tend to focus on the top ten to twenty percent of men. Those men, in turn, often seek only short-term sexual encounters with less attractive women \u2013 while many of those women are hoping for a long-term relationship. Men outside the top tier get almost no matches, regardless of what they\u2019re looking for. In the end, both sides are frustrated \u2013 much like in the physical world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psychologists Russell Clark and Elaine Hatfield tested this at Florida State University in the late 1970s. They sent out two equally attractive confederates: a woman who approached men, and a man who approached women. The questions were identical \u2013 the answers were not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWould you go out with me?\u201d \u2013 about 50% yes from both genders. \u201cWould you come to my apartment?\u201d \u2013 roughly 69% of men said yes, only 6% of women. \u201cWould you go to bed with me?\u201d \u2013 about 75% of men, 0% of women. \u2013 Twenty years after the pill. Ten years after Woodstock. You get the idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Practice mindfulness<br>Sit cross-legged, light some incense if you like. In the best case, you\u2019ll learn to reflect more on your feelings. In the worst case, you\u2019ll bury yourself in occult books and spend even less time actually dealing with yourself. But your isolation won\u2019t shrink because of either. Why would it? The circumstances outside you stay the same. At best, you\u2019ll just notice them more clearly \u2013 but that alone won\u2019t be enough. To solve complex problems, you need analysis, not esotericism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Call old friends or family<br>If they could help, you wouldn\u2019t have clicked on this video. And besides: as you grow older, the number of friends and relatives decreases \u2013 through estrangement, moving away, or simply because people die. Even if you\u2019re still young, things like lack of education, religious orientation, or poverty within families create isolation. And if that isolation isn\u2019t broken from the outside, it often gets passed on to the next generation. There\u2019s a reason people talk about \u201cuneducated families.\u201d And while we\u2019re at it: police have very good reasons to first look at the family environment when investigating suspected abuse. So the advice to call your family is, at best, annoyingly naive \u2013 and at worst, dangerous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Get yourself a pet<br>Better get a Tamagotchi app instead. Seriously: Ashby\u2019s Law says you can only solve problems if you\u2019re at least as complex as the problem itself. If the complexity exceeds your own, you can\u2019t solve it. The law also says that individuals can only truly understand you if they are at least equally complex. Your dog won\u2019t understand you or talk to you about existential crises. But it will force you into a new routine at least three times a day \u2013 within your small 12-kilometer radius. And that only makes it harder for you to experience anything new.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just be open and friendly<br>To whom, exactly? And even if someone crosses your path, that doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019ll treat you the same way. Too young, too old, too different, too similar, too attractive, too unattractive \u2013 the reasons for rejection are endless. You can try to be better. If you\u2019re really good, you can not only have a positive influence on the person in front of you \u2013 but perhaps also cause less harm than many others who don\u2019t even notice. But guaranteed immunity from exclusion does not exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seek professional help<br>If you take these tips seriously, you almost certainly need it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What I find absurd is that videos about loneliness systematically ignore entire cultures. In Japan, South Korea, and China, approaching strangers is considered rude. In North Korea, you hardly meet strangers at all. In Afghanistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Egypt, or Malaysia, strict gender segregation means your opportunities for communication are cut in half from the outset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And what if you already know who you want to spend your time with \u2013 but that person has other ideas? Or if you\u2019re considered persona non grata in your environment? Maybe you love the \u201cwrong\u201d gender or someone already seen as \u201ctaken.\u201d Depending on where you live, that can mean social exclusion, corporal punishment, loss of freedom, or even loss of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even my videos are part of the problem. They exist in German and English. Anyone who speaks another language is left out. And even if that weren\u2019t the case, there would still be internet censorship in some countries, local apps more popular than YouTube \u2013 or simply no access to the internet at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So let\u2019s focus on the people I can actually reach through YouTube: Statistics suggest the male audience tends to prefer analytical content, while the female audience largely prefers practical content. If I put less emphasis on analysis in my videos, they would be less helpful. If I keep the analysis, the videos stay more useful \u2013 but the female audience would watch them far less.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beyond this dilemma, there remains a tragic connection between Ashby\u2019s Law and the lesser-known Parkinson\u2019s Law of Triviality. The latter states that people tend to immerse themselves in trivial matters in order to avoid admitting their own incompetence when faced with complex issues. This behavior works in two directions: outwardly, it produces a facade of competence \u2013 creating the impression of knowing more than you really do. Inwardly, it sparks a burst of triviality that fuels self-deception: making you feel smarter than you actually are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Loneliness is one of countless complex problems. Unlike complicated problems, which you can understand by breaking them down into parts, complex problems can only be simplified by recognizing overarching patterns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What we need is a complex, analytically grounded solution. But the more complex the subject, the less willing most of us are to put in the effort it requires. YouTube creators depend on success. Their view counts rise when they offer you simple solutions \u2013 even if those solutions don\u2019t actually lead anywhere. And in many cases, you\u2019ll gladly accept them \u2013 and, once the discussion gets difficult, switch to another topic instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That also explains why so many videos look exactly the same. With each one, both you and the creator who made it feel less and less concerned. Propaganda works in much the same way \u2013 except it is organized and driven by a clear purpose. Most YouTube creators, on the other hand, may not even realize what they\u2019re doing. But even if they did, most of them obviously can\u2019t see any other way to succeed. And the more successful ones have employees \u2013 which means they also carry the responsibility of paying them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might be wondering if I\u2019m painting everything too dark. Let me tell you a little story: A few months ago, I was in Bangkok, the capital of Thailand. The city never sleeps; Thai people are known for their curiosity and openness. Cultural barriers to contact, like those common in Korea, Japan, or China, are far less present there. The city\u2019s vitality is everywhere on the streets of this megacity. My apartment complex, however, felt completely dead: empty pools, deserted common areas, hallways under video surveillance, elevators with access control. Playgrounds without children, rooftop gardens lush with vegetation but without visitors \u2013 only now and then a bird at night, crying desperately for company. From my apartment I never saw the bird, only a sea of air conditioners, in addition to the ones built into my own building. I counted about 500 units, two for each apartment. They pumped the heat out of the luxury apartments into an already overheated city \u2013 chilled loneliness in buildings without bulletin boards. Communication among residents was clearly not desired.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My rebellious plan was to buy a nice notebook and pen, sneak them past the cameras and the building staff, and place them discreetly on one of the tables in the \u201ccommon areas without community.\u201d \u201cMeeting at the clubhouse, every Friday, 6 p.m.? \u2013 Send me an email if it worked.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, my plan was foiled. My habit of writing late at night became my undoing. A cold from the air conditioning knocked me out, and I never managed to go out and get the notebook and pen. As if the building\u2019s immune system had identified me as a foreign body and successfully eliminated me. Maybe I\u2019ll outsmart the house next time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t blame the architects. I was in Bangkok when the earthquake hit \u2013 the building shook, but it didn\u2019t collapse. In doing so, they saved my life. True, they sold anonymity as a luxury to a clientele that confuses safety with loneliness. But that is not necessarily unethical. Architects are bound to their clients, and clients in turn to the workers who built the place. A more open design might have meant bankruptcy \u2013 and thus endangered the livelihoods of many involved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So let\u2019s note: what people want often differs significantly from what they actually need. Why?<br>The human brain runs on two basic drives: energy conservation and adaptation. Outside of famine conditions, those are pretty poor conditions for thinking. That\u2019s exactly why we click on videos that promise simple solutions \u2013 even when it\u2019s obvious they won\u2019t help. And it\u2019s why so many of us go for prestige, even when we can feel that this choice makes us lonelier. On top of that, our value patterns are first shaped in the limbic system \u2013 one of the parts of the brain that works unconsciously. In contrast, our language center sits in the cortex, the area of conscious awareness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When unconscious value patterns slowly emerge into conscious awareness after years and we learn to articulate them, that still doesn\u2019t guarantee their quality. When similarly shaped individuals grow up close to each other, their shared patterns can eventually make their way into a subculture, a social milieu, or even an entire culture \u2013 whether those patterns are useful or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Culture helps us think less \u2013 it supports our brain in saving energy, as long as it is the culture we ourselves come from. Only when we voluntarily step into foreign cultures, or at least explore other subcultures, traditions, or milieus within the same cultural sphere, are we able to question our own value patterns. In nature, pattern shifts never arise from harmony, but always from contradiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The question is: what went wrong?<br>In theory, the internet should connect us worldwide \u2013 yet right now we seem more isolated than ever. In theory, global air travel has been established for half a century. And yet most of us lack the time and money to regularly leap into other cultures that could challenge our learned patterns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And in theory, you should feel relieved at this point. Because if you\u2019ve followed my video so far, you\u2019ve understood that much of what isolates you is rooted in structures established long before you were born. And it is precisely that isolation that creates the feeling of loneliness within you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t feel relieved? Good. Because the realization that you\u2019re not responsible also takes away any possibility of intervening. Advice that doesn\u2019t work is useless \u2013 whether you follow it or not. The feeling of helplessness rises \u2013 the feeling of failure drops.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With the list of blind actionism, it\u2019s the other way around: all the tips seem practical and doable. And if they don\u2019t take you where you want to go \u2013 then it\u2019s your fault, not the list\u2019s. Your sense of helplessness drops \u2013 your sense of failure rises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps there was always something comforting in the idea that everyone is the smith of their own fortune. The dream may have felt far away, but it never seemed out of reach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am Nemesus. A jester with blue feathers. And I promised you a solution that actually works. The first step: stop feeling lonely \u2013 by starting to be alone! If that surprises you, or if you already sense the brilliance behind it, this would be an excellent moment to hit the bell and subscribe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In case you\u2019re still a bit lost: feeling lonely and being alone are not the same. Loneliness is passive \u2013 you wait for others to rescue you. Being alone is active \u2013 you step back strategically from questionable contacts in order to develop the skills that will lead you out of isolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I promised you useful surprises \u2013 not that you\u2019re necessarily going to like them. The point is: you\u2019ll need time for a deep dive into your feelings. And if things go well, that will put you on the first rung of the ladder \u2013 from loneliness to being alone. Less helplessness, with growing success. And by the way, this isn\u2019t just to your advantage. Even if the people you step back from don\u2019t realize it at first \u2013 in the end, you\u2019re saving them time as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Back to the list of simplistic fixes. Let\u2019s look at it through the lens of philosopher Derrida. He wouldn\u2019t ask what is written in the text, but rather what is missing \u2013 and why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ve probably noticed that the list of narrow-mindedness never mentions that you can feel lonely even among your closest friends. There are countless reasons for that. Even difficulties expressing your own feelings or thoughts can be enough to make you feel lonely. And even if you can express yourself fairly well, that doesn\u2019t mean the ability or willingness to understand you is always there. Cognitive distortions. Fears. Opposing mindsets. Toxic group dynamics. Chronic lack of time. Or simply tomorrow\u2019s appointments \u2013 all of these can derail any conversation, no matter which side the dysfunction comes from. With physical limitations, it doesn\u2019t stop at missed conversations \u2013 often even the shared experience of activities becomes impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As for me: it doesn\u2019t even take people to make me feel lonely. Factors beyond human contact are enough. Technology could already help us much more \u2013 if only we used it more intelligently. Or science \u2013 tangled up in dogma. Worse still: solid scientific findings that have been known for decades \u2013 and yet never applied. Or the carelessness with which issues are treated that can impact everyone\u2019s lives extremely negatively and permanently. Whether this shows up in dubious laws, in socially accepted behaviors, or in people\u2019s own environments \u2013 most of us are in worse company than we think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But let\u2019s shift the focus back to you \u2013 and less to human environments. Whatever you want to achieve in life: as long as your body doesn\u2019t hold you back, skills are the key. And they can be learned. We\u2019ve spent a long time talking about where not to invest your energy. Now let\u2019s ask: where could your time, your energy, and your dedication truly bear fruit? For that, I don\u2019t even need to know you personally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might be searching for the partner of your life. Or you may dream of an academic career. Some want to travel the world, others prefer to climb the corporate ladder. Still others see themselves as artists \u2013 or simply enjoy living day by day. And then there are those who hold a vision for the world \u2013 and want to make it real. Whatever it is, the key competencies you\u2019ll need remain the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On every path you take, you\u2019ll need dedication and resilience. The courage to take new directions. The ability to decide \u2013 because every choice you make closes off others. Linguistic competence and empathy \u2013 whether you\u2019re trying to win someone\u2019s heart or stand your ground with your boss, you\u2019ll need psychological know-how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, in realizing your visions you\u2019ll have to build connections and bring people to your side. But for that to happen, they first have to find you \u2013 and later also understand you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is where one of YouTube\u2019s underrated advantages comes in. Without platforms like this, you\u2019d have to repeat your thoughts over and over \u2013 in forums, in conversations, even with friends. And often it would just waste your time, because they might not want to hear it, or they\u2019d simply forget. In a video, by contrast, you say what you have to say only once. Whoever wants to listen can choose when \u2013 and how often \u2013 they listen. You save time and spare others the sense of obligation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Physicist Richard Feynman once said: \u201cIf you can\u2019t explain it to a six-year-old, you don\u2019t really understand it yourself.\u201d And he was right. From this it follows that you must first truly understand your visions, principles, and evaluative patterns yourself before you can convey them to others. On every path, you\u2019ll need a compass to check whether you\u2019re still on course. The ability to learn and to think dynamically is indispensable. A solid general education will always be an advantage, because it increases your complexity \u2013 and thus your ability to connect with people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter which path you choose, immersing yourself in other cultures will be essential. It makes you more flexible. A daydreamer or world traveler must be able to respond instantly to their surroundings in every situation. An aspiring artist, however, is much more dependent on their environment. While the traveler can move on, the artist must stay \u2013 and needs time to create. Part of their task, therefore, is to find an environment that stimulates them and values their creativity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the way: scientists, too, depend on their environment. They have to work closely with their teams and express themselves with absolute clarity to the outside world. After all, it would be a shame if research funding were not awarded, or if innovations were not even recognized. Every change in process patterns is teamwork. Finding an environment that supports it is like a precision landing. And being allowed to stay there permanently is an even greater challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you spend long stretches of time in one place or feel at ease wherever you go \u2013 in the end, both are journeys. And for all of them, one thing holds true: only the ability to look inward \u2013 even into your own past, back into your childhood \u2013 makes the journey outward and the path to your goals a true pleasure. Before that, it is often just an escape from yourself. The more advanced you become, the more joy you\u2019ll find in the process. Adults are usually more focused on the goal while children are primarily interested in the experience. And in that lies the secret of their growth. Paradoxically, part of the task is to reclaim what you already had as a child: the joy of being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s time to bring this journey to a close \u2013 the one you began when you clicked on my video. Your success in life depends on how clearly you can define your goals \u2013 and how capable you are of creating resonance in others. The sad truth is: the more isolated you are, the fewer opportunities you usually get to practice exactly what you need the most. At least, that&#8217;s how it was. Sure, uploading videos to YouTube has been possible since 2005. But only with the worldwide AI boom in 2023 did it become possible to get feedback on your ideas and voice-overs before publishing them \u2013 and before gaining your first follower. Thanks to AI.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if you have a small circle of friends with whom you can talk about almost anything \u2013 your friends won\u2019t have time for every single script revision. In fact, it would be unhealthy if they devoted themselves to that permanently. At some point, it would simply annoy them. And even if you treat them with care, there\u2019s no guarantee they\u2019ll stay with you forever. People change sometimes. So do you. But if you\u2019re serious \u2013 if you challenge AI with all your complexity \u2013 the two of you will become good mentors for each other. And before you know it, your circle of people will grow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Does all of this feel familiar to you? The reason is simple: I did nothing different when creating the voice-over you\u2019re listening to right now. So feel free to see me as what I see myself to be \u2013 my own guinea pig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On this channel, you\u2019ll find more essays designed to give you impulses for becoming more entertaining yourself \u2013 and shorts, for those moments when you simply want to be entertained and recover. The essays are more demanding and therefore appear less frequently, while the shorts are uploaded at much shorter intervals. My shorts are experiments: I try things out, play with genres, and follow whatever sparks my curiosity. My essays, on the other hand, grow out of what I encounter on my own journey \u2013 topics that strike me emotionally, catch my eye, or capture my attention in some particular way. In the case of loneliness, it was the combination of my trip to Bangkok and the flood of YouTube videos on the subject, all of which seemed far too shallow to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In that sense, I see my channels less as video galleries and more as a philosophy\u2014a school of thought. Big goals make us bigger\u2014projects are stages on the way where we grow. The videos are sub-projects of a larger whole; each one is a rung on the ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My most valuable tip to end with: be uncompromising. Choose being alone over random encounters \u2013 and you will experience deeper connections in the future. AI is not just a tool, and YouTube is not just a video platform or a source of money. Together, the two can be for you what the vine is for the wine: a way to grow, to travel the world, and to experience depth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am Nemesus. I have a vision I want to realize \u2013 and a website where you can copy all my voice-overs without registration and explore them with AI. Community gatherings take place once a year. And in all likelihood, you\u2019ll meet people there you would otherwise never have encountered \u2013 people who delight in resonance. Do you want to be part of it next time? Then use the form. Or are you afraid you\u2019re not ready yet? You still have time to prepare yourself for unexpected turns in life. And if the uncertainty feels overwhelming \u2013 keep an eye on my shorts. They might take your mind off things for a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Until then: Enjoy your journey. Stay tuned. Don\u2019t do anything I wouldn\u2019t do. Or, more briefly: Just try to avoid becoming the architect of loneliness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I showed you the ladder I built for myself \u2013 confident it can also work for others. Will you try it? Maybe there are other routes I don\u2019t know. Either way, I want to reach the summit. And I\u2019ll be glad to meet whoever I find up there.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Be nice. Go out. Find people. Get therapy. I\u2019ve heard it a thousand times \u2013 and I know: none of it works. In science, people like to distinguish between loneliness and isolation. Loneliness is treated as a feeling, isolation as external circumstances that can be measured in numbers. Ten social contacts in a month? 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